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Welsh Fleur

Hand wringing, neg. vs. pos. debate, and bickering thread

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In the interest of keeping the main boards free of the above (see title), this thread will serve as the depository for posts that have been made on the main boards that really have no business being on those boards in the first place; meaning I will move those posts to this thread when I come across them if they are not deleted as offensive.

 

Please members, let's keep the bickering posts, "true fan" finger-pointing posts, hand wringing "the sky is falling" posts, and any other kinds of downer discussions (those that make new members go "I'm outta here!") here in The Vent. It's not that your being necessarily discouraged from venting, expressing frustration, or sharing discouragement, etc., sure, there can be a place for that, but the main boards on Adam's Official site are not the place for such posts. Keep 'em here in The Vent and you won't find mods having to move them from their original threads. The Vent was created for just these kinds of discussions.

 

Thanks for your understanding.

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I would like to anoint this thread with a song then to welcome basement dwellers to The Vent.  :P  :D

 

Johnny Thunders "Que Sera Sera"...

 

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Saffron 

 I hope a poster who has always had the best of intentions hasn't been lost as well

Yes their absence is noticeable, hope it is for other reasons. Anyway I shall avoid all confrontation and posts which may be "difficult" as Adam only makes me feel great 

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Yes their absence is noticeable, hope it is for other reasons. Anyway I shall avoid all confrontation and posts which may be "difficult" as Adam only makes me feel great 

 

Just a reminder that PMs are great for conveying such sentiments.  Can help greatly to ease ruffled feathers. :)

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Back a couple years ago there used to be someone who posted under many different names (at least 10, probably more.)The posts were always negative and inflammatory and very very manipulative. She used to target me a lot. I am wondering if the person who recently dissed me for my radio comment is her taking on yet another identity. I guess I'm bringing this up cause I've been wondering if this is she risen from the dead. And I always wonder about those who only post negative things. Like what is their real intention? Anyway, don't divulge personal info unless you don't care who knows. I am a pretty open book, myself. Anybody on line can pretend to be anyone or anything. She had many personas, this one with too much time on her hands.

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JJ, I also thought that particular poster was probably a troll, coming here just to stir up trouble and bad feelings.  When a brand new member immediately goes into attack mode, it raises red flags.  She/he made only 2 posts, both of them negative.

 

I also noticed that she/he disappeared quickly after failing to accomplish that goal.

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JJ, I also thought that particular poster was probably a troll, coming here just to stir up trouble and bad feelings.  When a brand new member immediately goes into attack mode, it raises red flags.  She/he made only 2 posts, both of them negative.

 

I also noticed that she/he disappeared quickly after failing to accomplish that goal.

I don't agree.

She DID accomplish her goal, and then disappeared.

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She (and if it's the same person from a couple of years ago, she is a she) didn't accomplish her goal in my opinion because she didn't ruffle my feathers. I would have returned fire 10 fold a couple of years ago so I definitely did not give her what she wanted. :)

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Yes, I think not getting our feathers ruffled and letting things sort themselves out is the best we can do.  :)

 

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Karen, if you read this, I hope your day is going well and that you will be back soon.  

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